Often, we hope the little things we notice in our aging loved ones are no big deal. But how do you know when to be concerned? How do you know when you may need to intervene?
You can use the letters in C.A.R.E. to ask if it might be time for a helping hand. C.A.R.E stands for: Cues, Assistance, Responsiveness, and Engagement.
- CUES – Are there noticeable changes to appearance, hygiene, or housekeeping? Changes to hygiene may indicate they need someone to assist, as an inability to maintain one’s hygiene can have a negative impact on both physical and mental health.
- ASSISTANCE – Is there a need for support for mobility or daily living activities? As mobility changes, shopping, cooking, and cleaning can be challenging. When you visit your loved one, check that there is fresh (not expired) food in the fridge and that the home looks well-maintained and free of tripping hazards, clutter, or garbage.
- RESPONSIVENESS – Are changes in cognitive functioning happening, such as repeating themselves, forgetting, or getting frustrated when communicating? Unopened mail, unpaid bills, and unfilled prescriptions are a few examples that could have serious ramifications when not completed on time.
